Grey Anatomy

I’m a big fan of Grey’s Anatomy and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched as Meredith, George, or Izzy bring back a patient from the brink of death.  It is always a terrifying moment when you don’t know if the person lying on the table is going to make it, but when they do it is absolutely exhilarating.  And it is usually the skills of the doctor that make the difference.

It’s the same way with relationships.   You may have recently broken up with someone that you loved deeply, and you are wondering if you can get them back and how to start love over again with this very special person.  I believe that their are no impossible situations, and that no matter how bad it seems right now, you can start love over again.  You see, I’ve been studying relationships and what makes them work for about 15  years now, and I have seen people beat impossible odds.  Just like in Grey’s Anatomy though a lot of whether you can succeed or not, depends on how much you know about how to bring a relationship back from the brink of death.

How To Start Love Over Again – Relationship Rescue 101:

This article is far to short to cover every possible thing you need to know to rescue your lost love, but I am going to give you one tip that will help tremendously.  This is something my Mom told me during my tumultuous teens, and that I really didn’t understand well until later in my life.  In fact, this is such a common mom expression that you may have heard it from your mom too.

This is what she said to me – “You catch more bees with honey than with vinegar”.  I’m sure you have heard this expression before, but it is so true.  I have found that during very stressful times (like break ups), I typically become bitter and angry and desperate.  This has, on occasion, prompted me to be nasty, and bitter, and desperate to the very people that I have wanted to have a good relationship with.  That is like using vinegar to attract bees.  It just doesn’t work really well.  In fact, if you express your extreme displeasure (which you will and should deal with when you are calmer) to your ex during the beginning of the getting back together process, then you have a good chance of driving them away.

The magic is in the “honey”.  After a break up is is easy to poison your words and actions with vinegar, by acting desperate and mean (I know I’ve sure done this).  What works so much better is what I call distant politeness.  Right after a break up when you are trying to patch together not only your relationship, but also your entire world, you need to be able to create some distance between you and your ex… that way you can gain some much needed perspective.  But, what do you do when you do have to interact with them?  You treat them with respect and politeness.  Be careful not to get too drawn in to a lengthy conversation (although I know it is tempting).  Simply acknowledge them politely and move on.

This politeness will begin to draw your ex back like a bee to honey.  It is amazing how well it works.

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